Sex & Relationships part 2

4. The Sticky Scissor


“Lay perpendicular to each other with you on your back and him facing you on his side. One of your legs goes between his and the other is draped over his hips. This allows his top leg to be angled so it's pressed against your vulva while he's inside you,” says Borowicz. “While he's slowly pumping, you can can grind up against his inner thigh to get the clit stimulation you need to come (feel free to use your hands to press his leg down against you and angle it just right...or alternatively just have him move his leg out of the way a bit and use your vibe).”

5. The Up and Over


Missionary position will never be the same again. "While on your back, put a pillow under your butt, lift your hips, and bring your legs up and back toward your shoulders, as though you're folding in half," says Solot. This move allows your partner better ease of thrusting and deeper penetration — a perk for both of you. But consider this a warm-up — you're getting yourself primed for a more intense orgasm. Once you feel like you're getting into a groove, put your legs down and have him get into coital-alignment-technique (CAT) position. "He's on top, but he lifts his pelvic bone upward, aligning it with your clitoris," says sex therapist Gloria Brame, PhD. "Then he rocks against the area until you peak. The legs-up position is a slow burn that brings you to the brink and increases sensitivity. Then the addition of clitoral rubbing takes you over the edge in a bigger way than if you had done CAT alone," adds Brame.

6. The Down but Not Out


You've probably tried an all-fours pose before, and while doggy style is inarguably hotter than hot, in order to make it extra orgasmic, you need to modify it a bit. "Lie on your stomach, lifting your butt slightly so he can enter you," suggests Solot. "Your partner can prop himself up with his hands in a push-up position or lie on top of you." Not only does this facedown configuration provide increased friction as he moves in and out, but you can gently grind your clitoral area against the bed as well.


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